If you want to change your life, then change your identity.
(All behavior is belief driven)
Your identity depends on your actions and your actions are depended on your behavior. The limitations are framed by the box of your mind. If you want a new life , first you have to change your identity that means you need to bring a change in your actions as well as your behavior. Start with small different ways and prove yourself. You yourself will notice the change in your life soon.
It’s your responsibility to pick the direction for your life.
A lot of smart people waste years thinking, “If I just work hard, then things will work out for me.” Nothing will work for you by itself , you have to work hard day by day which will later bring appreciable results.
It’s your job to decide the direction for your life. The world is filled with good people who want good things for you, but they are busy with their own lives. It’s not their job to find opportunities for you. They won’t help you unless you can tap them on the shoulder and say, “I’d like to get here. Do you know how?”
Purpose is everything. If you know where you want to go in life, then people will either help you to get there or get out of the way. Both of those are useful.
Focus on average speed, not maximum speed.
(Inspiration is for amateurs. The rest of us just show up and get to work.)
Working hard is not an option , its a choice. Don’t wait to get motivated , inspired so then you will get on work. Make a purpose , and day by day just be so busy in achieving it that one day your work will worth it. The most important thing is that focus on average speed not maximum speed because you can’t achieve anything suddenly in one chance. You will get many opportunities in your life. Whenever you get an opportunity , don’t think that it’s your last one. Don’t get upset if you are not getting results of your hard work , stay calm , wait and continue . No one can stop you if once you determine to achieve whatever you want .
Professionals set a schedule for their work. Amateurs work when it’s convenient.
Give yourself permission.
You don’t need permission to make yourself better. The typical standard doesn’t have to be your standard.
You don’t need permission to love someone or something. If you love them, you love them. If you love it, you love it.
You don’t need permission to create something you’re excited about, to quit your job and travel the world, to pursue a dream, to give up on a dream, or to do just about anything.
If you want to do it, do it. You don’t need to be tapped, appointed, chosen, or nominated to live a good life. You don’t need to be selected for greatness, just start living it.
You have enemies?
That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.
You have no responsibility to live up to someone else’s expectation of you. Don’t waste your life chasing what someone else says you should want instead of doing what’s right for you.
Take a stand for something you believe in. Sometimes you need to look society in the eye and tell the world to stuff it. Never compromise your values or your dreams. It’s not the easy decision, but it’s the right decision.